Coming of the worst year of my life, I lost the love of my life, had a heart attack, lost all my friends in the court of public opinion, all because of the actions of a single narcissistic toxic gym coach who saw that my girl and I were in love with each other day one she got hired and made it her mission to destroy us both me with public humiliation, her with constant lies behind my back. It's unfortunate that my girl, even though she is a LT. In the police department she works for in whitefish bay she is still unable to tell the difference between a lying woman and an honest man. Which sucks for me because I spent 2.5 years taking that mental abuse from the coach just so that I could make sure that my girl made it in safely every day. Most guys would have given up fighting for her but it was god that sent me there when I prayed for him to take over my life and lead me to my wife , in an instant he answered and sent me to that gym and showed me the girl he wanted for me. But the devil sent that coach and i wasn't ready for that. In the end I got kicked out for sending my girl a beautiful bouquet of flowers and a beautiful love poem about her beautiful voice. It was because she and everyone else had been convinced by that coach that I was a rapist, she apparently had been doing that when I was away working for the summer 16 to 18 hour shifts . Which for me is devastating since I am still a virgin . I have been following Gods laws my whole life i choose to get married first before sexual relationship when I was a young man, then I was treated so terribly by women it ended up becoming a lifelong curse . I could never even get a date my size was just a constant no. So when God answered my prayer I didn't hesitate. But I should have . Last April that coach drove me into a heart attack, I almost died the first week on my new job because of her actions . Just like in the movies two people argue and the fat guy falls down from a heart attack, ya that happens it's the stress hormone cortisol gets spiked and clogs arteries. I ended up all summer dealing with chest pains and being treated like a gutter scumbag and I didn't know why. Finally at the end of summer I was able to get all the scans I needed two for the heart one for the brain one for the throat just to be covered. The heart showed my main artery that feeds blood to the heart was still over 60-65% plugged up . And I got put on medication right away. Cardiologist was borderline about possibly putting a stint in but I workout seven days a week and walk a mile a day, so as long as i can keep it up he doesn't need to put a stint in. However the brain scan is what I've been contemplating for months about sharing or just keeping it to myself, but everytime I pray about it, God opens up another platform for me to tell the story on. The scan shows levels of deterioration that alzhiemers and dementia patients that have suffered domestic abuse in their lives have. I was a shut in until I went to that gym. I just went to work and home. The neurologist is expecting that I will develop one of the brain diseases by the time I hit 60 and that I won't make it to 70. When both of my grandfather's lived to 98. It's a hard pill to swallow but I have been trying to not let it get to me. I pray everyday for everyone that I know, especially for my love she is trapped in a world of lies and I ask God every day to send the holy spirit to open her eyes to the truth, but that place is controlled by the devil and the hearts in it have dark agendas so they keep secrets and lies going and she is stuck in darkness. So I lost so much last year and my life is no longer an open ended book waiting for God's timing . But now I have a countdown timer instead. So with the time I have remaining I'll try to help events like this. Born from the tragedy of 9/11, the Tunnel to Towers Foundation carries forward a legacy of courage and heroism. Built upon the mantra, “While we have time, LET US DO GOOD,” the Foundation supports our nation’s fallen and catastrophically injured first responders, military heroes and their families.
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